Focus On That One Thing
It is important to focus on that ONE thing ---- the ONE assignment that God has called us to do. We cannot fulfill every need that demands our attention. People will always want you to meet their needs. Don't let guilt trap you to meet theirs.
Be firm to decline in helping others, if it distracts you from going after your assignment. ๐๐จ๐ฎ ๐ก๐๐ฏ๐ ๐ฅ๐ข๐ฆ๐ข๐ญ๐๐ ๐ญ๐ข๐ฆ๐ ๐จ๐ง ๐๐๐ซ๐ญ๐ก ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ฎ๐ฅ๐๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐๐จ๐ ๐ก๐๐ฌ ๐๐๐ฅ๐ฅ๐๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐จ. If everyone focuses on their assignments, every need will be met.
๐๐๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐ง๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ง๐ง๐จ๐ญ meet all those needs and demands. When you decline to help, you will face accusations. People will say that you are not loving and they try to guilt-trip you. You cannot please everyone since you are only supposed to please God (Ahem... and your wife lol).
๐๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐ซ๐ ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฏ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฉ๐๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐๐จ๐-๐ ๐ข๐ฏ๐๐ง ๐๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐ ๐ง๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ even if you are NOT helping others because it takes away your time from going after your assignment. When we fail to walk out the fullness of our assignment, we FAIL to love people in that capacity.
When they found Him, they said to Him, โEveryone is looking for You.โ But He said to them, โ๐๐๐ญ ๐ฎ๐ฌ ๐ ๐จ ๐ข๐ง๐ญ๐จ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ง๐๐ฑ๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ๐ฐ๐ง๐ฌ, that I may preach there also, because ๐๐จ๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฉ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ ๐ ๐ก๐๐ฏ๐ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ ๐๐จ๐ซ๐ญ๐ก.โ - Mark 1:37-38
Now when it was day, He departed and went into a deserted place. And the crowd sought Him and came to Him, and tried to keep Him from leaving them; but He said to them, โI must preach the kingdom of God to the other cities also, ๐๐๐๐๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ ๐๐จ๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฉ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ ๐ ๐ก๐๐ฏ๐ ๐๐๐๐ง ๐ฌ๐๐ง๐ญ.โ - Luke 4:42-43
There were so many needs among the crowd. People needed Jesus' help. ๐๐ฎ๐ญ ๐๐๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐๐ฌ๐ง'๐ญ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ฏ๐๐ ๐๐ฒ ๐ง๐๐๐๐ฌ. ๐๐ ๐ฐ๐๐ฌ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ฏ๐๐ ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ข๐ฌ ๐
๐๐ญ๐ก๐๐ซ'๐ฌ ๐๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐ ๐ง๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ ๐๐จ๐ซ ๐๐ข๐ฆ. He was focused with that ONE thing. Jesus set His face to go to Jerusalem (Luke 9:51). He wasn't distracted by the needs around Him, because there would be endless needs to meet.
Martha tried to guilt-trip both Jesus and Mary. She wanted Mary to help her. She also reckoned that Jesus did not care for her.
Yet Jesus said, "๐๐ฎ๐ญ ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ง๐๐๐๐๐, and Mary has chosen that good part, which will not be taken away from her." - Luke 10:42
Let's learn to say NO to others and ๐๐๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐๐๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ .